Cheap Therapy For Dummies

Posted by fxckfeelings on July 19, 2010

Today’s post tackles a common, yet heretofore-not-submitted question about therapy, namely, how to find good help without breaking the bank in the process. While it’s a simple question, the answer isn’t, so we’ve dedicated the entire post to helping those who want help with their mental illness, but don’t have a dime to spare.
–Dr. Lastname

I’ve been depressed for some time and could use some treatment, but my insurance has a big deductible, so I’ll be paying everything out of my pocket, which isn’t deep. My goal is to get treated for the least amount of money.

I’ll assume from your tone that depression isn’t making you suicidal or putting you at immediate danger of losing your job and/or family because, if it is, you need to forget about the cost of treatment and value the cost of your survival.

If depression is putting your life/work/family in danger, get a psychiatric evaluation, in an emergency room if necessary. Do not pass go, do not collect $200 (no matter how much you need it).

If that isn’t the case, there’s lots you can do to reduce the amount of money you spend on treatment…if you’re willing to spend some time, do some research, and use your common sense.

While the above question is quite short, the answer is anything but; looking for a treatment on any budget is a serious, involved process, so we have an involved, serious answer. Behold, our five step process that will help you with your depression without hurting your wallet.

Step one is telling your primary care physician (during a brief visit or even email) that A, you’re feeling low, B, you don’t have any physical symptoms (no fever, no weight loss), and C, you’d like to get some tests to rule out a physical cause of depression, like thyroid disease.

Tests will reveal if you’re feeling low because your glands, not your brain, are problematic.

Assuming your glands are good and your brain isn’t, step two is considering the options other than antidepressant medication, which, because it’s medication, always has a higher risk than non-medical therapies.

I’m guessing that medication is probably the last thing on your mind. It’s important to think about it upfront, however, because sometimes depression doesn’t wait for psychotherapy to work before causing severe pain and/or damage to your life, and medication always increases the odds for a better and faster (and sometimes cheaper) recovery.

Step two then, (postponing the issue of possible pills), is considering psychotherapies, including the how-do-you-really-feel-about-that kind. Many people assume this is the only kind since it gets lots of airtime on TV, where it uncovers exciting and unexpected changes of heart and inspires tears and plot reversals.

Despite what TV tells you, however, not everyone with depression needs psychotherapy. Psychotherapies are better at helping you manage depression than cure it, so it’s not surprising that many people with depression have had a number of psychotherapies.

Before considering a feelings-focused therapy, ask yourself and the people who know you whether there’s an issue you need to talk about. Remember, sharing your feelings with a professional is most effective if you haven’t done it before or your confidantes are unsupportive bozos and bartenders.

So, while the bad news is that psychotherapy is not a cure, the good news is that you don’t have to pay for it unless you think there’s a kind that’s worth trying. Either way, you save!

Your job is to figure out whether you (still) need one or more of them. If you want to save money, do your homework. It’s that, or pay a professional to do it for you.

If you decide that a feelings-focused psychotherapy is necessary, you may get a bargain at a state-subsidized community mental health center or a psychotherapy teaching institution. Don’t assume you should see a therapist every week, because you may get just as much bang for your buck by making the meetings less frequent.

You haven’t completed step two, however, until you consider other psychotherapies, particularly cognitive behavioral therapy or “CBT”, which is a good option if your negative thinking (caused by depression or being human) is making you more depressed.

Read books on the negative thinking caused by depression and anxiety (like The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns) and decide whether you need to do thought exercises to stop your negative feelings from becoming negative beliefs or actions. If you find it useful, look for a therapist who “does CBT” or “DBT”, a form of CBT that focuses on thoughts of self-worthlessness and the desire to injure oneself.

Please note: we’re not recommending all kinds of self-help. In fact, if you see a self-help book about “healing the inner hurt,” run the other way as if it were on fire. If Dr. Phil recommends a book, we forbid it.

Step three is taking a break from the books and tuning up your diet and lifestyle. Exercise is a powerful antidepressant (the way you feel afterwards, not during, anyway). Vitamins and omega three fatty acids help, and, despite what most people think, drinking and drugs don’t, so learn to abstain.

Finally, read up on antidepressants while ignoring the eye-witness accounts of horrors and miracles. Consider the risks (fairly low, despite what Scientology says) and possible benefits (positive, but delayed and very iffy). Then, if you decide that the risks of staying depressed are worse than the medication risks you’ve read about, ask your primary care physician for an “antidepressant medication trial.”

Remember, you’re conducting a trial, not taking a cure. Note, quantify and record your symptoms and possible side effects over the next few weeks. (There are programs on Google that can help you do this). You’re the one who decides whether the new medication is doing more good than harm.

If a couple medication trials haven’t worked, the very last possible step, number five, is to get a referral to a psychiatrist and give him/her a list of the medications you’ve tried, the doses, how long you took them, and the good and bad things you noticed. You can find a psychiatrist on the cheap at the same clinics we sent the feelings-focused types to.

Follow these steps, and you’re on the road to dealing with/managing your depression. It’s not a cure or an easy answer, but it’s a start, and hopefully this is all the information you need to start on a good path to treatment without paying a pretty penny.

STATEMENT:
Here’s a statement of purpose that will counteract depressive helplessness and pessimism. “I don’t know why I’ve been feeling depressed and I may never know, but I know how to find any causes that are worth finding and to try the cheapest treatments first. I expect to run into a lot of dumb ideas about depression because many people want to believe they have the answer and an easy way to control it. Whether or not I can control it, I know that, by doing the research myself and using professional help whenever I think it’s necessary, I can do a good job of taking care of myself.”